Once considered a relic of the past, perms for guys have made an incredible (and somewhat unexpected) comeback, driven by cultural influences from the world of K-pop and social media. Bro perms may be relatively new in the West, but men in Japan and South Korea have been getting their hair permed for decades, and at least since 2020, Korean stars like Jungkook from BTS and Chen from EXO have been setting hearts aflame with their soft curls.
The soft, wavy perm is a staple of the K-pop look, blending a playful vibe with a touch of sophistication. Its top curls are tender and loose; the hairstyle is versatile and can be combed over or worn with a fringe; and the sides and back of the head are faded short with clippers and scissors. For a little more money, a client can choose what’s known as a down perm, which relaxes and flattens stubborn strands that stick out, creating a smoother appearance.
But the real brisk trade in male perms is driven by Gen-Z boys and TikTok. At first it was atrendy look for influencers with straight hair, like US social media sensation Jacob Sartorius and the adored and eagerly watched Nic Kaufmann, who back in 2020 posted an “I might have got a perm” video. Then the pandemic happened, salons and barbershops shut down, and a lot of the e-boys ended up on TikTok just as their already-long-on-top hair was growing out. And as straight and wavy hair grows, its weight can drag a voluminous look down. So, what’s a TikToker to do? Get a perm.
“God help you if you don’t neutralise properly. Back in the day, when I was an assistant, if I didn’t neutralise a perm, I got it in the neck!” – Joe Mills, Woolf London
And what a look: a pile of fluffed curls, with stacked layers for height and a deep fade on the sides and in the back. “I don’t even know if this haircut has a name,” says Mills, “and I don’t think anyone’s actually claiming you need to go and get a perm but I think kids with straight hair are saying, ‘I want curly hair’ and either their peers or their mum is turning round and going, ‘Well, you need to have a perm.’ And they’re not going to a barbershop for that look, they’re going to Toni&Guy. It’s a shift that reminds me so much of how I used to go to the barbers with my dad when I was growing up and then, when I was about 12 or 13 and I wanted highlights and a wedge, I went to my mum’s unisex salon. I’m not saying that barbers can’t perm, but when it comes to technical services people tend to look for those in mainstream salons.”
One thing’s for sure, these Gen-Z boys are definitely into their hair.
“The current crop of teens – and I’m talking from 14 to early 20s – they really know what they want. Their identity is really locked in,” says Mills. “My son and his mates, they’ve all got their own hair products, they’ve got their own hairdryers, they know what they’re doing. There was a period of time when a lot of the barbering haircuts were pretty low-maintenance from a regime point of view, whereas for this look, you definitely need to put the work in.”
So, the perm has evolved, just like its clientele. But the killer question: what about the smell?“Oh god, it’s still just as bad as ever,” says Mills. “There are perms out there where they’ve managed to get rid of the smell, but we noticed that often those perms drop out quickly. So,we use the old-style formulations because perming is quite a labour-intensive process and you don’t want to take a chance on using a product that’s not going to work and cost you twice the amount of time, right? And as any hairdresser of a certain age will remember, knowing when a perm is ready – when you’ve got exactly the right amount of curl – that’s all done by eye. And god help you if you don’t neutralise properly. Back in the day, when I was an assistant, if I didn’t neutralise a perm, I got it in the neck!”